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i need encouragement/advice yall
Posted 22 June 2012 - 06:38 PM
Posted 22 June 2012 - 06:40 PM
idk if you're joking but...yeah lol.
Posted 22 June 2012 - 06:43 PM
Posted 22 June 2012 - 06:45 PM
Posted 22 June 2012 - 06:48 PM
Posted 22 June 2012 - 06:57 PM
and trust me i tell her everything on my mind and all she does is put off and make excuses that she cant get into a long "heavy" conversation now. so im just tired of it. im tired of trying to make it work and trying to help her through her stuff when she wont help herself.
and its not like shes soooo depressed because she still hangs out and goes places with her friends and talks to other people a lot more than she talks to me.
its just hard bc im so in love still. and i can go a few days with not talking to her, but then i just miss her so much so i text her and i get sucked back in this cycle. i know im all over the place and none of it prob makes sense
Posted 22 June 2012 - 07:08 PM
i've obvi never been at all at all in love with someone, so i'm sure it's a lot easier for me to say than it is for you to do. but i think you should just really try to focus on and do things with your fam, friends, work, etc, and maybe you'll be able to prove to yourself that you don't need her as much as you feel like you do?
idk i feel like bitca and other people are prob better at this than i am
Posted 22 June 2012 - 07:20 PM
Will probably be hard, you'll be tempted, but it's the only way.
Complete silent treatment, that'll make her think !
Posted 22 June 2012 - 07:25 PM
Posted 22 June 2012 - 08:57 PM
Posted 23 June 2012 - 06:04 PM
I knew in my head what I had to do, it's just helpful to hear it from other people too. It's going to be so hard and I'm a mess, but I was fine before her and eventually I'll be fine without her.
Posted 23 June 2012 - 08:53 PM
stay strong! and keep busy. you can do it.
That's the key !
Do things that you like to keep your head busy and not think about her.
Things will get better, it's just a matter of time
Posted 25 June 2012 - 08:03 AM
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Posted 25 June 2012 - 06:38 PM
Not sure if it's true the things I was told, but don't beleive any sort of threat. -secludes self back into the shadows-
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Girlfriend: Clean up your piss and plz don't cyber with tiffany without letting me watch
Posted 25 June 2012 - 08:22 PM
But to be honest, as the semester dragged on, the last month or so in particular, the more and more of an asshole he was being to me, the easier it got because I just got so sick and fed up with it (plus it helped that I have new roommates this coming semester).
Then the remarkable happened... we went home! I've been home for a month and a half now and I hardly feel bad at all about the situation. I'm still very bitter at how badly my "friends" treated me, but I've gotten to see that there are other people out there who will treat you well and with respect and being home this long so far has gotten me to see that I don't need anyone's friendship to be happy, there are simply others who are there. And not talking will certainly help. It might hurt on the inside, but you'll probably get over it eventually. I feel great and feel like I have so much to look forward to now.
Surround yourself with other people, that's how I've been coping. It works like a charm.
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